#100HappyDays

by - October 17, 2014

It was a very simple thought, to find one happy moment every day for 100 days… and this simple thought was to accomplish a simple objective – that of clicking some nice and happy pictures of day-to-day moments and thus keep my creative side alive…but as I ventured into this, it also sharpened a few other positive aspects as well… like improving my writing, openly appreciating what I liked, understanding viewpoints, expressing deeper side of me, letting inhibitions go off, seeing magnificence in nothing or perhaps in everything…
Doing this feat on a social channel like Facebook made it a compulsion to be diligent and not miss a single day… and thanks to a few friends who followed it religiously, so much so that they would supposedly wait for my post and sometimes remind me at the end of the day to post… many of the moments got generous likes and encouraging comments which have been a huge contributor to my continuing the series meticulously… yes some of them made fun and teased, but it just made me sit back and think on what about these posts was so difficult for people to relate to... maybe their mind is stuck up in superficial aspects of life, which they need to be free of, to be able to enjoy genuine and unfeigned pleasures of life…

For me, these pleasures and happy moments were heartfelt… none of them really emanated from the mind… and looking back at them, I realize, how much of happiness our loved ones bring and how unaware and thankless we are about it… any occasion, any event, any outing, any celebration can be happier when done in the company of loved ones… Distances don’t matter, differences don’t matter, what matters is the smiles that these moments bring along…
These 100 days also reminded me that happiness, to me, is derived from very many petty things like a good weather, be it sunny afternoon or lashing rains or a moonlit night, a cup of coffee or tea while soaking in that weather or a drive or walk maybe… a relaxing evening, with a book for company or company of some priceless reminiscences, some time spent with my ownself pursuing hobbies or time spent with some strangers who are interesting and inspiring in their own way… Yet another revelation to me was the happiness I derived from food… in cooking, in eating, in serving, in savoring… experiments or tested delicacies, home-made or eat-outs… as the sumptuous food fills the stomach, happiness fills up the heart.. I guess its just programmed that way for me…

I also had friends asking me on various occasions as to how difficult was it to find these moments everyday… on many days, it was pretty easy… but on some days it was a challenge to find that moment because of some preoccupation or being busy with work or feeling tired after a hectic day or just feeling lazy... on few occasions, I must admit, it was an arduous thing to do.. there were days which were unrealistically miserable, full of frustrations and irritations… and on such days, it got the wits out of me to post a happy moment… its on such days that it truly tested my ability to shut off one part of me and activate the other, to create a genuine happy moment… today as I reflect upon those days, I realize, the happy moments posted then were far more earnest and sought after as they were those few happy moments that brought a smile on me inspite of suffocation within.. that brought warmth along, inspite of coldness around… that brought abundant happiness, and made every other thing insignificant…

Taking inspiration from a friend, starting this series of ‪#‎100HappyDays.. an attempt to find happiness in small and big things... for next 100 days to start with and everyday thereafter.. to make it ‪#‎HappinessForever. Thank youJanhavi Kulkarni for this inspiration..
#100HappyDays 
‪#‎Day1 
Happiness is a drive in the fog and rains  — atMumbai Pune Expressway.
Happiness is... blooming plants in my sunny balcony.. their way of saying how happy they are... :):):) ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day2
Happiness is... a hot adrak chaai, on a cold rainy day... ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day3
Happiness is... doing childish things like scribbling on the fogged up bathroom mirror... :):):) ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day4
Happiness is... a peek into the countryside, driving by the long winding roads, in the awesomest ever weather... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day5
Happiness is... experiments in the kitchen, which need much more perfection, yet are gulped down the moment they land on the plate...‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day6
Happiness is... loving Polo and getting much more love in return... absolutely selfless and unadulterated love this... :):) ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day7
Happiness is... gossiping outside of office too..  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day8
Happiness is... getting washed out in the downpours of Mumbai... they call it 'THE Mumbai Rain'  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day9
Happiness is... seeing them create a small world of their own... oblivious to the world around them...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day10
Happiness is... when one of your favorite places shares your happiness and offers it at a discount too !! :)) ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day11
Happiness is... digging into the candy-floss, trying to eat it craftily with just the mouth, but ending up with a sticky pink face !  ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day12
Happiness is... when you dig into the old folders looking for something and unexpectedly land upon a treasure... a PRICELESS Treasure..‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day13
Happiness is... to travel in a no-frills, hassle-free, readily-available public transport in Mumbai... the only place where they promptly return the 'chillar' balance, even before you take your money out to pay...  ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day14
Happiness is... to see how they begin their day with contagious laughter moments, as they effortlessly exercise their painful joints... brought an instant smile on me..  ‪#‎laughterclub ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day15 — atChintamani Deshmukh Garden, Mulund (E)
Happiness is... sneaking out for a refreshing coffee break, in midst of painfully long discussions and mentally draining work...  ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day16
Happiness is... when the dice magically spins such that u land onto that longest ladder, to jump from behind everyone to ahead of everyone... :))‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day17
Happiness is... titillating the taste buds with the road-side paani-puris, gulping one after the other countlessly...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day18
Happiness is... feasting on sinful delicacies of the festive season...‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day19
Happiness is... helping an Artist with his Art, that too to his satisfaction.. feeling grateful that he let me contribute to his wonderful creation (i helped him with the green triangles)...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day20
Happiness is... to start the day with a soul-nourishing session of Yoga...‪#‎PrashantYogashraya ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day21
Happiness is... to see flights landing and taking off, with childish exuberance, till they fade into the sky...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day22
Happiness is... ending the day with a good, gripping book.. and a hot cup of green tea..  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day23
Happiness is... to hear her laugh, and see her happy... to rever her life-long strife to fill my life with happiness... and hoping I can give her atleast half of what she did for me ... heres wishing that wonderful person a wonderful birthday... HAPPY BIRTHDAY AAI.. :):):) ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day24
Happiness is... a FaceTime with 'Happiness' itself...  ‪#‎100HappyDay‪#‎Day25
Happiness is... to reminisce about the college canteen, where marking attendance every morning was mandatory, where the aroma of vada-pavs and samosas and 'masala chaha' would fill the air, where we planned bday parties, picnics, proxies, exam preps, college fests... where we shared our tiffins, notes, gossips, secrets, dreams and everything that mattered to us... where we celebrated all sorts of days like black&white day, rose day, blue&pink day, chocolate day... and most happening of them all would be the Friendship Day, with everyone flaunting their hands full of bands and ribbons... amazing set of friends and amazing days spent with them, their remembrance brings enormous happiness today... Happy Friendship Day guys  ‪#‎MulundCollegeOfCommerce ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day26
Happiness is... to tip-toe into their room, expecting to catch them playing well past their bed-time, and then pleased to see them sleeping blissfully... showing the love they share and the way they care...  ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day27
Happiness is... when you open the laptop, knowing that there are many mails to be actioned, much backlog of work to be cleared, preparation to be done for tomorrows presentation... and that very moment, the laptop conks off... leaving no option but to shut it off... instantly easing out all stress...    ‪#‎BlueScreenOfDeath ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day28
Happiness is... soaking senses in the smell of raw hide... seeing world-class Louis Vuittons and Jimmy Choos being made right here in our backyard.. and getting an exquisite pair of leather-craft for my own wardrobe...‪#‎shoppingtherapy ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day29
Happiness is... to spend a few moments in the divine abode... seeking some divine intervention in life... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day30
 — at Shree Siddhivinayak Temple
Happiness is... when she says 'Ma, yahan baitho, mein aapko pretty banaati hoon' and starts pampering... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day31
Happiness is... seeing the vibrant colors and rich textures brought together by artisans from across the country... seeing their contended smiles as their art finds place in millions of homes... thank you Simran Arora for introducing me to this many years back... missing you a lot today  ‪#‎Dastkar‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day32
Happiness is... family time... and wishing time just stopped there.. ‪#‎RakshaBandhan ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day33
Happiness is... catching up on 'saansarik dharavaiks' at night, after putting kids to sleep, wrapping up work and finishing household chores... seeing the mindless stories through the gaudy make-ups, stark expressions and cryptic dialogues, giving much needed rest to mind  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day34
Happiness is... indulgence in the midnight :):):) ‪#‎chocoalmondfudge‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day35 missing Ankita Malviya
Happiness is... when you fix that last piece of the 'complex' 150 pieces jigsaw, after 30 minutes of non-stop mental exercise  ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day36
Happiness is... being a silent listener to their loving conversations... seeing this wonderful bond growing stronger by the day...  Love you both...‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day37
Happiness is also in the pride that unfurls with the national flag as it soars up high in the sky... ‪#‎IndependenceDay ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day38
Happiness is... to go back to childhood where we left our hobbies, re-cultivate them now, alongside the kids... to encourage them and in turn get inspired by them... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day39
Happiness is... to live upto her expectations in making a theme chart, the way she imagined, which she is proud to take to school... and to see her elated smile, which wont fade for a while now...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day40
Happiness is all over her face, as she runs to me... when I surprise her and pick her up from the school bus... an immensely fulfilling moment this ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day41
Happiness is... meeting an extraordinary person, on an ordinary travel... a person who leads a simple yet fulfilling life, on her terms, for her dreams.. today she was on her way to fulfill one of her dreams of Mansarovar yatra, for which she has been saving for last 5 years through petty jobs... the big sack she is holding is full of goodies which she will distribute on the way to people who help her make her journey memorable... The first goodie (chocolate bar) came to me for helping her find her seat, buckling the seatbelt, making her a coffee and chatting through the flight... todays happiness is all about meeting such an inspiring person.. (she refused to get clicked with me saying 'mere photo achhe nahi aate' and so had to click without her knowledge)... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day42
Happiness is... rolling down the car window and feeling the breeze on the face... such that eyes barely open... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day43
Happiness is... when someone sitting so far thinks about you, shares your happiness, waits for your happy moments, and makes you feel much loved... a tight hug to you Ankita all the way from here... you give very many happy days to me and today is one such day...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day44
Happiness is... to do what they do and to look how they look...‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day45
Happiness is... to have someone who always walks by your side... never to leave you in any tide... whom you can trust to always follow... even more than your own shadow...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day46
Happiness is... when home is filled with laughter and fun... thank you Andy for sprinkling so much of happiness all over... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day47
Happiness is... to take out an evening from the busy jobs, to spend time with people who started their very first job together... to pause the present and live few moments in the past... to walk a few steps together, before going back to their own paths again... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day48 at Mumbai Cricket Association, BKC.
Happiness is... alone on a quiet night, a cup of strong coffee to keep awake, next to a large window overlooking a sleeping city, thoughts flowing into a blog... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day49
 — at Trident, Bandra Kurla, Mumbai
Happiness is... a before-time flight arrival, bag first on conveyor belt, no queue for cab, empty roads and a driver who probably was in car racing earlier... this is when the world conspires to get you what you badly need - 'to get back home faster than ever'... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day50
Happiness is... to complete a game successfully, which not only requires technique and lot of patience, but also some streak of luck... thank youNamita for the gift, this sure is addictive, and far better than the candy crushes and angry birds  ‪#‎dropgame ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day51
Happiness comes in His form every year... and doubles with these sumptuous Ukdiche Modaks... ‪#‎GanapatiBappaMorya ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day52
Happiness is... filling up the home with aroma of, and filling up the heart with richness of 'Thalipeeth', accompanied with home-made butter... (if someone can help with english translation of this delicacy!)  ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day53
Happiness is... when the little one shows streaks of brilliance in his first competitive outing... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day54
 at Mysore City
Happiness is... when distance makes the hearts grow fonder and closer, and gets expressed through such tokens of love... thank you Anshita for these wonderful curios, you so perfectly know how to send smiles and happiness from miles away...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day55
Happiness is... in being one of the followers that swarm this place... in gratification you feel on seeing HIM... ‪#‎LalbaugChaRaja‪#‎GanapatiBappaMorya ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day56 at Lalbaugh
Happiness is... to curl up in bed, with a book, as sleep waits to take over...‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day57
Happiness is... in a bowl of steaming hot MAGGI... a 2 minute formula to win his heart, even after all these years!!  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day58
Happiness is... giving monthly attendance at the favourite place, filling up the plate with favourite food, spending time in the most favourite company... ‪#‎100HappyDays‬ ‪#‎Day59
Happiness is... in the realisation that she has grown old enough to... measure and mix, sieve and stir, blend and bake, a yummmm cake !‪#‎EgglessDateCake ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day60
Happiness is... when this effervescent and ever-smiling couple agree to flash their smiles for my camera, a rare phenomenon for me  ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day61
Happiness is... to put words to imagination, to experiment with writing diction, to spin up some fiction... :)) ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day62
Happiness is... a scoop of rich, sinful chocolate ice-cream, Period !‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day63
Happiness is... when you sit to edit a few photographs recently clicked, and come across a picture that needs absolutely no edits... it is just perfect the way it is...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day64
Happiness is... a walk in the moonlight, on a wet, cold night...‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day65
Happiness is... to be able to do outings along with Polo... thanks to the premier hotels upgrading themselves with a 'pet friendly' status, where your pet is allowed to walk freely by your side and share your room too.. ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day66 at Park Hyatt Chennai.
Happiness is... to be part of his nostalgia, as he relives some parts of his early life, refreshes some of his childhood memories... seeing the house where he lived, temple he visited, club where he played... narrating stories one after the other... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day67 at Defence Colony, Ekkaduthangal.
Happiness is... gliding on the butter-smooth road, cruising through the awesome weather, soaking in the scenic landscapes, listening to some soothing music... he driving & me relaxing  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day68 at Chennai-Bangalore highway
Happiness is… to have finally compiled many of पु.. gems in my playlist… to play anytime and have loads of lighter moments and smiles right at my finger-tips… no dull moments hereon  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day69
Happiness is... to end the day with a clean work mailbox, with all mails and to-dos actioned/responded/delegated and archived... to not have any carry forward work from today to tomorrow... to feel lighter in mind and liberated in heart... to actually look forward to tomorrow to make a new start... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day70

Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well-being characterized by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.[1] A variety of biological, psychological, religious, and philosophical approaches have striven to define happiness and identify its sources. Various research groups, including positive psychology, endeavor to apply the scientific method to answer questions about what "happiness" is, and how it might be attained.
It is of such fundamental importance to the human condition that "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness" were deemed to be unalienable rights by the United States Declaration of Independence.
The United Nations declared 20 March the International Day of Happiness to recognise the relevance of happiness and wellbeing as universal goals. In 2014 Happy (Pharrell Williams song) became the anthem and inspired clips from around the world.
Happiness is... when my 'Happiness moments' make a mark on my friends, to the extent that they feel happy in every small and trivial thing around them, so much that they miss me to no end while living their happiness... such that they go about expressing and describing Happiness in profoundity  My heartfelt thanks to Srikanth Venkatesan Prabhdeep Singh LambaBhuvana Natarajan for showering much love and happiness... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day71
Happiness is... digging into the smooth silky chocolate, an instant midnight-mood-uplifter...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day72
Happiness is... in the feeling of missing Mumbai everytime I go away... Oh Mumbai, I wish I could live you some more, I wish I could breathe the breeze and soak in the smell of you some more, I wish I could have your wind beneath my wings some more as I would fly high into fiery skies with fearless zest some more... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day73
Happiness is... in the weekly family hang-outs which the grand-parents & grand-daughters eagerly look forward to... where stories are told and happenings are discussed, where plans are made and advices are given... where demands are placed and concern is expressed, where compliments are showered and affection is shown... but above all, it is also where distances have shortened, and smiles have widened... ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day74
Happiness is... in letting the girls shop for themselves, seeing them choose their clothes, shoes, accessories so thoughtfully, admiring them as they check each piece of new garment in the mirror, capturing their contented smiles after shopping, wondering when did they grow this big, imagining what fun shopping will be hereon... re-assuring myself that all women are the same, however young, however old  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day75 at Commercial Street
Happiness is... onset of school holidays = extended play time = late night card games = 2 teams = unadulterated family time = absolute fun ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day76
Happiness is... in preparing for a short vacation travel... in messing up the room with all that needs to be packed, in kids adding all their 'cannot do without' stuff to the mess... in arguing over 'so many clothes? are we going for 10 days or 10 months?'... in last minute additions and hence deletions after much deliberations... in innovating ways to zip up the over-packed suitcases and at the same time quietly hoping that we havent exceeded the baggage allowance !  ‪#‎100HappyDay‪#‎Day77
Happiness is... to have been able to fulfill one of her long outstanding wishes of 'seeing where pilot sits'... and getting him to answer few of her many questions, which I had no answers to  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day78
Happiness is... in listening to Grandma's bedtime stories... animated, engrossing, full of emotions... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day79
Happiness is... in exploring all kinds of equipments, experimenting varied combinations, sharpening technical side of the brain and enhancing the endless knowledge of photography... Thank you Dipayan Ghosh for bringing these over...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day80
Happiness is... to spend some time in His shelter, to seek His blessings, and consume these blessings in the form of these rich Prasad Modaks... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day81 at Titwala ganesh temple
Happiness is… in the heart-warming hugs and smiles from the loved ones, in the feeling of closeness on meeting them even after ages, in the conversations that happen as if continuing from yesterday, in nurturing these bonds that grow timeless over the years, in being part of this extended family, who have given me some of the best times of my life…‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day82 at Mulund East, Mumbai.
Happiness is... overflowing through their smiles, with a shine in their eyes, as they come together to celebrate their 'vacations'...  ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day83 at Mulund East, Mumbai
Happiness is... in the pride she feels in seeing her progeny standing tall next to her and in being a part of this progeny across four generations‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day84
Happiness is... when a son shares his father's passion, pursues it alongside his father, and together they begin a journey to complete an incomplete dream...  Kshitij you make us immensely proud  ‪#‎100HappyDay‪#‎Day85
Happiness is... in my annual tête-à-tête with you on your birthday...‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day86

Happiness is... in giving a relaxing head massage, that puts to sleep in no time...  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day87
Happiness is... to spend endless moments with oneself... relaxing, unwinding, slowing down... in a restful state of mind... reflecting, pondering, feeling close to self... in the most peaceful corner of the home... bestowing calmness outside & happiness inside... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day88
Happiness is... caramel popcorn over a good movie...  ‪#‎100HappyDays‪#‎Day89 at PVR Cinemas, Koramangala
Happiness is... when experiments on self turn out to be far better than my own imagination... ‪#‎SelfieLove ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day90
Happiness is... in sumptuous, satiating, yet a simple meal...  ‪#‎Pongal‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day91
Happiness is... in getting absorbed into highly intellectual discussions, with a hugely motivated team... :)) ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day92
Happiness is ... to relish a city through it's revered cuisine, relive its tradition through the century old scriptures, get introduced to the specific tastes of the ageless history and enjoy an evening of mouth-watering delicacies...‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day93 at Oh! Calcutta
Happiness is... when we get to blow candles, cut and eat our favourite cake, sing a song together, pose with dazzling smiles and not miss a chance to celebrate birthdays... ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day94
Happiness itself has come over :):):) ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day95
Happiness is... to gorge on some sinful chocolates, with an assortment to choose from and to feel satiated with the sweet moments in life... Thank youAnkita & Samrat for this annual quota of chocolicious happiness :))‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day96
Happiness is... a frame of pretty women, a dazzle of gorgeous smiles, a feeling of limitless joy, a bond of eternal love  ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day97
Happiness is ... to get hold of an engrossing book that makes you ignore everything around... ‪#‎MeTime ‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day98
Happiness is... to be in command over mind and body... to achieve harmony with inner-self... to let life flow into the core of intelligence, knowledge, wisdom and power... to stand on that core with elan...  ‪#‎Shirshasana‪#‎100HappyDays ‪#‎Day99

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